I wanted to write a little on the nature of submission. I think there are some incorrect beliefs, misconceptions about submission, well the whole D/s relationship. What I wanted to say, from my perspective, is that submission is all about giving power over. To do that, one MUST create power within themselves, that means being strong spiritually/mentally/physically. Also, it’s a daily gift, it isn’t something you just say “once upon a time” and then go on your merry way. It is a repeated act, it may grow easier with time as you become more accostomed, but truly it isn’t an instantaneous thing. There will be ups and downs, and for me the hardest part…. we won’t talk about the hardest part here, I want to focus on the positive and on observations. I’ll write more on this later.